Being confident means having good self esteem and knowing that you are valuable as a person. Poor self esteem is a big problem today, and many do not realize their worth. Being confident may come naturally to some, but others will need to change the way that they think about and see themselves in order to gain confidence. Knowing your weaknesses and working hard to overcome these will help you gain confidence in your skills and abilities, and this will be visible to others.
Every now and then that inner voice will challenge you, confront you and try to hold you back, and that's when you need to let your heart guide you. Have an awesome day, stay strong, be true and most of all be you!!!
When we look at a tree, we overlook how long it took to grow, to become strong, to have leafs, and to be fruitful. Why are we expecting when we start working toward our goals for us to grow fast magically and produce fruits that people would want to eat from. It takes time, it takes a lot of digging first, a lot of dirt work, to plant the seed and than it takes a lot of water, a lot of good food, a lot of nutrition and a lot of sun. If one of those ingredients are missing the tree will not grow strong and standing tall and mighty. So how do you measure if you are growing in a good rhythm not too slow and not too fast. By how you feel. If you feel happy everyday and feel right about what you do toward your goals than you are already successful and you are growing strong. Also, if you see the growth within; meaning you feel each day you have learned something new, or you have become aware of something you were not aware of before..when you see spiritual, emotional, physical, intellectual growth each day in your life, than keep doing what you are doing, you are in the right path and you only need now to be patient. But if you do actions and it doesn't feel right, you feel you are not learning anything knew anymore, you feel like you are stuck in a dead-end, you don't feel happy in the morning, you don't feel any growth, than you need to change your goals, or the direction that you are taking; the steps and actions that you are taking. Always reevaluate what you are doing everyday and see if it's leading you to a growth or to stagnation. May God give you wisdom and lead you to the right path for your happiness, strength and success.
Don't think it's easy to accomplish your dreams, to be on top of your mountain. If it was easy everyone would be there, many loose track, many give up, and many don't want to do the work to get there. Your dreams: your unbelievable visions are on the other side of that wall..it is breakable but you have to have the right tools and the right actions to break it and to set yourself free from your reality and step into the realm of your dreams. What are the right tools? Well it's first of all who you need to become to start doing the actions.The way you think will lead to your actions, the way you are will lead you to your actions, the way you feel will lead you to your actions. Work on yourself, you are the greatest tool to get to your dreams. Another tool is knowledge about your passion, so for example if you want to be a Professional Photographer, than you need to develop the skills of taking great pictures, learn everything about it and start doing it until you become perfect in it, its not how much you advertise that will get you successful it's how good you are in what you do. And of course you can be the greatest but if you don't show your work and network than you will be like a treasure in the ocean and you don't want that. You want people to know who you are and what you have to offer. So there are many steps, and many things you need to do before you start seeing results and all this may have to be done next to a regular job that you have, and its even harder if you have a family also to take care of. But everything is possible with God's help..because you are trying to break that wall... one day God will start breaking it with you..and it will get easier and one day you will be able to leave that job that has served it's purpose and no longer is. And you will be able to just do what you always love to do and become an inspirational to others. Are you willing to do the work and to sacrifice to get to your dreams?