Once said by Ellen DeGeneres, this famous quote can be confusing, after all, we all are who we are, right? It is not that simple, in fact society today has a habit of telling us that we should be something else, and it can be damaging, even when we don’t realize it.

From having the right partner to careers, wearing the right clothes, having the right phone and even driving the correct car, society sets impossible standards and expectations that most of us can never live up to, and no matter how much we pretend it doesn’t, sometimes that can make us feel like we are not enough as we are.

You Can Have Results or Excuses, Not Both. Famously said by Arnold Schwarzenegger, this quote sums up the idea that anything that is worth achieving takes effort, and it is up to us to put that effort in. We all have dreams and ambitions; they are the things that drive us forwards and keep us going even when we face challenges. Some are small, wanting to visit a particular place on vacation for instance, others are much bigger, career goals, fitness goals, buying a home or owning a specific car, that kind of thing.

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