Being confused generally means not understanding something or being puzzled in some way, and there are people who stay confused most of the time while others avoid this state of mind altogether. Mental confusion can be caused by excessive brain activity, and there are individuals who are always racing from one great scheme to another without ever formulating a plan or following through on their ideas. It is possible to avoid being confused when you clear your mind and focus on one thing at a time.
When you feel lonely, it's when you want to reach out to someone to talk about your problems and challenges and you have no one to turn to. You feel like no one around you really will understand what you are going through. And you sink into a deeper feeling of emptiness. Often when you move to another city or state, you don't know anyone yet you feel you are like a drop in the ocean. Loneliness occurs also when you go through separation or divorce. Another reason is what you say to yourself that may lead you to loneliness. If you keep saying, no one really will understand my darkest side, or who can really handle me, when I can't really handle myself, or you say to yourself I will never meet someone who understands me. Your mind is your biggest enemy to your well-being if you don't train it well. So you can start by saying, I will meet new people that will have the same interests, that will understand me because they are going through the same thing or they have been through the challenges, I will go out there and meet new people and do activities to connect with others, I will soon find my new friend and new family that have the same spirit and that will love me for who I am with my imperfections. I will love and be loved again. No matter where you are or what situation you are going through if you start by changing your way of thinking you will start seeing miracles. God will send you the people who deserve you.You just have to turn to Him and ask Hime to help you to find your way again. Until then you are never alone, God is with you.
God allows challenges in your life, because He wants you to rely on Him and ask Him for help. The more you lean on Him, and communicate with Him, the more you will feel His hand helping you. He will not only guide you gently to your goals and dreams, but He will carry you to it. As long as your goals and dreams come from the heart then you will start feeling that God is helping you to go through the toughest storms that come in your way..
When you don't have anyone to share your dreams with, you have God. When you have people making it hard for you to achieve your goals because they think they know who you are..instead of trying to get to know you.. let them go. Choose your battle, and God will be your armor and will give you what you need to fight the right way with the right people so you can achieve all of your dreams not just some!!!