An abusive relationship continues due to fear and emotional stagnation. As soon as the abuser feels their hold start to slip then the abuse escalates. Hands should be used to hold and caress loved ones, not to inflict pain, physical damage, and terror in those that the abuser professes to love. Women should treasure their man and do everything possible to make them feel secure and beloved, instead of putting the man down and belittling them. Men should protect their woman and honor them instead of battering or screaming at them. If more people understood the different forms that abuse can take and had the strength to walk out there would be fewer abusive relationships happening. You can not change an abuser so the best thing you can do is get away completely, protecting yourself and any children. The most dangerous time for a man or woman who is in an abusive relationship is when they try to leave, and this fact should be considered when this point is reached. The abuse starts out gradually, and the abuse victim needs to stand up in the beginning to prevent further problems later on.
We say the word love often and sometimes we don't say it at all. If only we can know what is truly unconditional love, feel it deeply into our soul, body, mind and spirit, the world would be a magical place to live in. But we abuse that word, we throw it easily at people, we use it to our advantage, we keep that word to ourself, we don't use it the right way until one day it hits you. And you start understanding what is unconditional love. It's love that comes from God. And when you start being close to him, you start feeling His unconditional love that He has for you. Only then, you start feeling love for yourself, and you say to yourself"I am loved by God, my Creator no matter what I do, no matter what I say, no matter who I am, God loves me, because He is my Father and any father loves his son even though he may do mistakes, even though his son doesn't love himself, even though his son is not treating others well, he is still his son and The Father will always love him" And you may say, well if God loves me, I would not be suffering and God will answer to you. "I will discipline you when you don't do right, I will teach you lessons when you do mistakes, and I will guide you to the right away, and I will not prevent obstacles in your way, because you sometimes need to learn when you experience., its the only way you can grow, be strong and do what you are supposed to do on earth. But have faith my son, that I will always love you unconditionally and if you come into my arms when you are struggling I will comfort you and show you the way." Believe, feel, and know that God loves you unconditionally when you do so you will become LOVE and you will start loving yourself and start loving others.
When you feel lonely, you feel like no one really understands you, that if you have a problem you have no one to reach out to. Because you feel like people around you they either don't understand you or they don't care, or they will judge your or criticize you. But there are people out there; friends that you don't know yet, families that you don't know yet, that understand you and have been through the same thing, you just got to reach out. There are so many organizations and groups that you can reach, if you don't do the step to break free from the loneliness that you are feeling, it will kill you, emotionally, spiritually and maybe physically. Reach out and don't wait until tomorrow reach out today to get someone to listen to you... And until you do so, know that God is with you, that you are truly never alone, you just got to feel Him next to you and hugging you, carrying you and guiding you to the right people.
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