Being a deadbeat mother is just as shameful as being a deadbeat father. Both parents have a responsibility to provide financially for any child that they create, and mothers may skip out on this responsibility just as often as fathers do. In the past women usually received custody but that is no longer true, today many dads get full custody and the mother is order to pay child support to help out financially.
Anything that costs you your peace is too expensive let it go.
A deadbeat thinks of the person in the mirror, not the child in the shadow.
Stay away from negative people they have a problem for every solution.
You can't control people. You can only control your reactions to them.