Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. If you do not like the outcome then you should change your actions so that you get a different outcome the next time around. Many people continue the same pattern in their lives, and then wonder why nothing changes. If you do something you will get the same results even after doing it thousands of times. Expecting the results to be different is delusional and not rational at all. If you are in a bad relationship with a cheater and you keep forgiving them and taking them back you should not be surprised when they cheat again. In order to get different results then you need to change your actions, this is the only thing that will change the results. If you want a better life then change what you are doing so you do not end up in a destructive pattern, otherwise you will see the same outcome time and time again and nothing will ever change.