A true lady doesn't demand she thanks, and true man doesn't promise he commits.
Being a man has nothing to do with being violent or creating children. A true man is measured by his maturity, and by the way that he treats others. Being a man means understanding that a boy can create children but a man takes care of his offspring and protects his family from all harm. A real man works every day, often at a thankless job, just to provide for his family. He is tough yet compassionate, and his word can be relied on.