Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew meaning. It is an impossible task. Your brain may tell you that this person is not right for you or that they are bad but your heart does not listen to your brain when it has fallen in love. Even when a relationship turns abusive in some way this does not negate the love that you feel, but this does not mean that you should stay and put up with mistreatment. Love does not always conquer every and you can not change other people, you can only change yourself. The love that you feel may fade over time but it will never completely go away, you must learn to move on in spite of how you feel if a relationship does not work out. You will always have the feelings. If you are meant to be together it may still happen in the future, but maybe now is not the right time. You can not remember a person when you have never met them, and you can not forget someone that you still love and care about no matter how much you try. They will always be in your thoughts and on your mind regardless of how much time has passed.