When you have a broken heart your world may seem to collapse around you. A broken heart means that you are in emotional pain after losing someone you care about. This can be caused by a romantic breakup, the death of a close friend or loved one, or even the loss of a long time pet. Time will heal a broken heart, even if it may not seem this way in the beginning.
Youâ€™re too beautiful to be self-harming yourself. Itâ€™s time to put down the things that are just bringing more pain to your life. Donâ€™t let the hate that people give you cause you to hate yourself. Donâ€™t let bullying separate you from the love of God. Donâ€™t let broken relationships separate you from the love of God. God has an everlasting love thatâ€™s more POWERFUL than any hurt you can going through. God has an everlasting love thatâ€™s more POWERFUL than any depression that you can go through. His love is so powerful that even loneliness, rejection, or low-self esteem canâ€™t survive. God sent His one and only begotten son to die for you. So you donâ€™t have to turn cutting because you are more than conqueror through Christ who loves you. You donâ€™t have to turn to drugs because God is closest to the broken hearted so He's going to rescue you when you're crushed in spirit. I know turning to those things seem like theyâ€™re drowning out the pain, but really all self-harm is doing is sinking you deeper in it. Thereâ€™s no healing in cutting, only a temporary release. Thereâ€™s no healing in giving your body away or using, only a temporary fulfillment. It's time to stop going back to these temporary things by choosing right now that youâ€™re worth more. Youâ€™re worth more than the people who walked out of your life. Youâ€™re worth more than those people who talk about you. Youâ€™re worth more than those problems that are lying to you. You are worth more than anything that is trying to separate you from the love of God. I know it may be hard to do and hard to understand, but I need you to trust Godâ€™s plan not your pain. Donâ€™t let your problems keep you in a season that God didnâ€™t intend for you to be in. Iâ€™m praying that you close this chapter, so you can see thereâ€™s much more to your story than just the hurt youâ€™re currently going through. You have have to create pain to feel alive. Youâ€™re worth more. Donâ€™t you ever forget that!
How could you forgive someone who backstabbed you. Well you really can't without the help of God. Our human nature is to egocentric to be able to forgive anyone, but God's Spirit can overcome any human weakness. And so you just have to ask God to help you forgive that person. And you ask God, until you forgive to the point that you even pray for that person. You are going to tell me, I don't want to think about that person who did wrong to me and pray for him. Well, in order to really find out if you have forgiven that person pray for him. If you can't then you have not forgiven him. You sill are holding a grudge..a human being can full himself many times. Just pray a few times you don't need to do it for the rest of your life, just enough to know if you have truly forgiven that person. Because many of us, including myself may think that we have forgiven someone, but in reality thinking about them still makes us feel angry, sad, frustrated, etc..But if you think about them and you feel love, peace and just a letting go feeling of frustration and anger toward that person, than you have truly forgiven that person. Why is it that important to forgive? Because you need to set yourself free from the pain that they have inflicted on you. Otherwise you will carry that pain and it will drag you down. When you let go, and let God be the judge and be the one that will take care of the wrong doing of people, than you feel free. You have crushed that evil spirit that doesn't want you to move on and focus on the right people in your life and the important things that you need to do to achieve your goals and dreams. Remember forgiving doesn't mean you approved what they did, and it doesn't mean that you choose to still be in their lives; it just means that you refuse to hold on to any negative emotions in your heart. You deserve to feel free and you deserve to feel happy and peaceful; forgiveness is an essential key to the road of peace, love and success.