Be with someone who is proud to have you, and will fight for you every second of the day. Too many people settle for someone who is quick to run away or who will not fight for them, and they are missing out on the true wonder that real love offers. When someone truly cares they are proud to be associated with you, regardless of how you are dressed or what you may look like at that moment. This person will be willing to fight to protect and support you, making you their focus. Don't settle for anything less because you deserve real love and not just a weak copy of this emotion. The best relationships involve trust and loyalty on both sides, and both people in the relationship value what they have enough to fight to the end to preserve and protect it.