Stop looking for a partner. Focus on your goals and rebuilding your life. The right person will eventually find their way to you. Far too often people are always searching for that perfect someone, but until you place the focus on improving yourself and your situation it may not be possible to find the right person. Many people are surprised to find that when they stop searching and start to work on themselves instead the right person suddenly appears. Until you learn to love yourself, be comfortable in your own skin, and be the best person you can be the right partner may be impossible to find. Too many people never focus on their goals or work to improve their lives and situations, and they always end up with the wrong person as a result.
True love happens when you least expect it. When you do what is right and you focus on building the best life possible for yourself the right person will find you, there will be no need for you to search endlessly. Sometimes it may seem like you will never find that special someone no matter how long and hard you search, but this is usually because you are spending your time and energy looking instead of putting the focus on improving your life and situation. When you concentrate on rebuilding your life and place your focus on reaching your goals you will usually be surprised at the results, and you will end up meeting that special someone without going out of your way to do it.