Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me meaning. I am the captain of my own ship. I am in charge of my destiny and where I end up, nobody else controls this. Far too often people complain about their life and how they wish it were different, yet they make no effort to enact positive changes. These individuals are content to just float along even though they are unhappy. I am the only one who can decide when and what to change about my life, that has to come from me. Start small with minor changes, and this will help get the ball rolling. If I want a different life then it is up to me, no one can swoop in and magically give me the life that I want. I am responsible for my life, and the outcome that I achieve.