Expand your mind, by reading more and understanding how successful people have achieved their dreams. In order to be a great leader and be CEO of your own life, you need to have been a good student. Be humble enough to be willing to learn from the ones that are inspiring you. Don't let the negative emotions fill up your heart, heal from them and move on, otherwise you will never know or achieve your dreams. You need to learn from your past but don't carry it, let it go. And become stronger out of your painful experiences, become a warrior not a victim. And believe that you can achieve all of your goals and dream big. Have faith that you can become who you are supposed to become and don't let anything or anyone dictate who you ought to be.
When you start imagining how you want to live your life, then things will start happening to you. If you don't visualize your perfect life and your dreams, than who will. And the first step is to write them down, it's like a plan for the foundation of a skyscraper. If you don't have a solid foundation than how do you expect to get to the top of the building, of your mountain or of your pyramid. So take the time to plan your actions so you can arrive to your dreams.