Being blessed refers to having life easy or being lucky in some way. Couples who have a child are blessed because of this, and financial blessings are seen more by some than by others. Everyone has been blessed just because they were born, because some babies never make it this far, Growing up is also a blessing, but being rich is not always a benefit. Many thing being wealthy is being blessed but some have seen their lives devastated by incredible riches.
When we look at a tree, we overlook how long it took to grow, to become strong, to have leafs, and to be fruitful. Why are we expecting when we start working toward our goals for us to grow fast magically and produce fruits that people would want to eat from. It takes time, it takes a lot of digging first, a lot of dirt work, to plant the seed and than it takes a lot of water, a lot of good food, a lot of nutrition and a lot of sun. If one of those ingredients are missing the tree will not grow strong and standing tall and mighty. So how do you measure if you are growing in a good rhythm not too slow and not too fast. By how you feel. If you feel happy everyday and feel right about what you do toward your goals than you are already successful and you are growing strong. Also, if you see the growth within; meaning you feel each day you have learned something new, or you have become aware of something you were not aware of before..when you see spiritual, emotional, physical, intellectual growth each day in your life, than keep doing what you are doing, you are in the right path and you only need now to be patient. But if you do actions and it doesn't feel right, you feel you are not learning anything knew anymore, you feel like you are stuck in a dead-end, you don't feel happy in the morning, you don't feel any growth, than you need to change your goals, or the direction that you are taking; the steps and actions that you are taking. Always reevaluate what you are doing everyday and see if it's leading you to a growth or to stagnation. May God give you wisdom and lead you to the right path for your happiness, strength and success.
When you don't have anyone to share your dreams with, you have God. When you have people making it hard for you to achieve your goals because they think they know who you are..instead of trying to get to know you.. let them go. Choose your battle, and God will be your armor and will give you what you need to fight the right way with the right people so you can achieve all of your dreams not just some!!!