We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. No human being is perfect, we all have flaws, so the perfect person is a myth that does not exist. When you love someone you do not love them because they are perfect. Instead you love them in spite of all their imperfections and you overlook their flaws because you care so much about them. In your eyes their imperfections do not exist because you love them. True love does not try to change someone, if you truly love them then you accept them the way that they are and not the way that you want them to be. Everyone else may see the flaws and imperfect qualities that they have but to you the one you love could not be flawed in any way because you are looking at them through the eyes of love. When you truly love someone then no one else can compare, even if they have fewer faults, because all you can see are the good qualities of the one that you love. Everything else seems to disappear in the background and fade away into nothingness.