When you start imagining how you want to live your life, then things will start happening to you. If you don't visualize your perfect life and your dreams, than who will. And the first step is to write them down, it's like a plan for the foundation of a skyscraper. If you don't have a solid foundation than how do you expect to get to the top of the building, of your mountain or of your pyramid. So take the time to plan your actions so you can arrive to your dreams.