Real men take care of their kids & real women don't make it hard for the father to do so.
I agree. A man should be a true father to his kids, show affection, love, respect and guide them to their right path. The father is not only part of the kid's life just to provide the necessary, food, shelter, education and clothes. Be affectionate to your kid, hug him, kiss him, tell them how much you loved them. Don't think by doing so you are bringing up a soft guy, its on the contrary, he will have a strong heart and therefore be a true warrior. The wrong kind of discipline determines whether your child will be successful or not, not by you depriving him from you love to him. Learn about how to discipline your child and learn about how to express your love to him and you will become a real man and father.