If you say I don't want to love you this means that you care deeply about someone that you know is not the best choice for some reason. It may be that the individual is always cheating, or that they treat you badly. You do not want to be in love with the person but you can not control your feelings, and the love lingers. I don't want to love you quotes show that emotions that are out of control, your brain knows better but your heart and feelings do not listen to reason or intellect. This phrase is common when a relationship heads south because one person is always left behind when the other moves forward, and the person who loves the most in the relationship may have a hard time letting go and moving on.