True affection means being glad to see a friend or family member, and taking the time to keep in touch no matter how hectic life gets. It also means taking the other person's feelings and needs into consideration in every respect, You cannot have real love and affection for another if the goal is to control or change them, you have to love and respect them for who they are. Too often today people confuse affection with lust, but affection develops over time and grows slowly. Love at first sight may feel powerful but affection will stand the test of time because it is based on the inner person and is not superficial. If you feel affection towards someone you should make this clear through your actions and your words, and build them up instead of putting them down.
Nothing is nicer than having someone who Appreciates you in the smallest things.. Accepts you in times of hardships.Comforts you when you're troubled.Loves you no matter what and is simply happy for having you in their life.