The beginning of each day offers a new opportunity to make the world a better place and affect those around you in a positive way. This is a chance to do more to help others and focus less on your own wants and desires. Mistakes made are put in the past and you can start fresh, with a clean slate and a positive attitude. Dwelling on the past can lead to resentment and other negative emotions, instead let each new day signal a fresh opportunity to make things better and atone for past mistakes that you may have made. Face each day with courage and take steps to help those less fortunate. Use this chance you have been given to help others and try to ease suffering whenever you can. Remember that life ends for everyone and take advantage of another day that you have been given, living it to the fullest and enjoying every second.
When you feel lonely, it's when you want to reach out to someone to talk about your problems and challenges and you have no one to turn to. You feel like no one around you really will understand what you are going through. And you sink into a deeper feeling of emptiness. Often when you move to another city or state, you don't know anyone yet you feel you are like a drop in the ocean. Loneliness occurs also when you go through separation or divorce. Another reason is what you say to yourself that may lead you to loneliness. If you keep saying, no one really will understand my darkest side, or who can really handle me, when I can't really handle myself, or you say to yourself I will never meet someone who understands me. Your mind is your biggest enemy to your well-being if you don't train it well. So you can start by saying, I will meet new people that will have the same interests, that will understand me because they are going through the same thing or they have been through the challenges, I will go out there and meet new people and do activities to connect with others, I will soon find my new friend and new family that have the same spirit and that will love me for who I am with my imperfections. I will love and be loved again. No matter where you are or what situation you are going through if you start by changing your way of thinking you will start seeing miracles. God will send you the people who deserve you.You just have to turn to Him and ask Hime to help you to find your way again. Until then you are never alone, God is with you.
When we look at a tree, we overlook how long it took to grow, to become strong, to have leafs, and to be fruitful. Why are we expecting when we start working toward our goals for us to grow fast magically and produce fruits that people would want to eat from. It takes time, it takes a lot of digging first, a lot of dirt work, to plant the seed and than it takes a lot of water, a lot of good food, a lot of nutrition and a lot of sun. If one of those ingredients are missing the tree will not grow strong and standing tall and mighty. So how do you measure if you are growing in a good rhythm not too slow and not too fast. By how you feel. If you feel happy everyday and feel right about what you do toward your goals than you are already successful and you are growing strong. Also, if you see the growth within; meaning you feel each day you have learned something new, or you have become aware of something you were not aware of before..when you see spiritual, emotional, physical, intellectual growth each day in your life, than keep doing what you are doing, you are in the right path and you only need now to be patient. But if you do actions and it doesn't feel right, you feel you are not learning anything knew anymore, you feel like you are stuck in a dead-end, you don't feel happy in the morning, you don't feel any growth, than you need to change your goals, or the direction that you are taking; the steps and actions that you are taking. Always reevaluate what you are doing everyday and see if it's leading you to a growth or to stagnation. May God give you wisdom and lead you to the right path for your happiness, strength and success.