Stay away from people who make you feel like you are hard to love. These people will bring down your opinion of yourself and fill your life with doubt and other negative emotions. Someone who truly cares about you will never find it hard to love you, even when you are at your most difficult. When you are treated like you are difficult to love then eventually you will come to believe this, and you will stop looking for the real love that can change your life in wondrous ways. We all have bad days and days when we are not at our best. When someone truly loves you they will be there for you and offer support during the tough times in life, without ever making you feel undeserving or like you are a burden. If this is not apparent then the person does not really care on a deep level and they should be avoided at all costs.