Some women fear the fire some women simply become it. When things are tough you have two choices, you can either live your life in fear of what is to come or you can get tough as well. When you have been burned in the past this can make you fearful of the fire, but you should be careful that you do not end up becoming the very thing that you fear. If you have been burned it is instinctive to want to become the one who gets to burn others, but this can leave you bitter and alone as you go through life. There is a middle ground, one that lets you eliminate the fear without becoming the flame yourself. You should always be cautious about who you trust your heart or your loyalty to, spending the time necessary to get to know the real person before you jump in with both feet. Give others a chance, but don't be foolish or so blind that you do not cut someone out of your life if they do not truly care about you.